Israel and Iran flare-up tests Trump’s grip and could strengthen Tehran’s negotiating hand

A weekend of tit-for-tat military exchanges between Israel and Iran has reignited fears that the Middle East is sliding toward open direct conflict between Washington and Tehran, putting long-strained alliance dynamics and fragile nuclear diplomacy under the global spotlight.

The latest cycle of violence began when Israel carried out targeted airstrikes on Beirut, the capital of Lebanon, prompting Iran to launch a missile barrage against Israeli territory in retaliation. In response, Israel launched its own airstrikes against Iranian sites – the first such direct attack since a shaky ceasefire between the US, Israel and Iran took hold in April.

More than three months after the US and Israel opened their formal conflict with Iran, the region remains perched on a knife’s edge. The fractured network of temporary ceasefires and competing alliances has created a dangerously unstable landscape, and this latest escalation lays bare three critical truths about the current trajectory of hostilities.

First, US President Donald Trump lacks the ability – or the willingness – to rein in his Israeli ally to the degree he publicly claims, a gap Tehran has been quick to spot and exploit to widen rifts between the two allies. Second, Iran is willing to accept retaliatory strikes on its own territory to tie the US-Iran conflict directly to the ongoing standoff between Israel and Lebanese militant group Hezbollah. Third, the long-awaited nuclear deal Trump has prioritized is far from imminent: Iran has detected that Trump currently has a low appetite for military risk in an election year, and is pushing to extract greater concessions from Washington at the negotiating table.

Hours after Iran’s Sunday missile attack, Trump told reporters he would immediately call Netanyahu and order him to stand down from retaliation, warning that an Israeli counterstrike could derail his delicate diplomatic outreach to Tehran. But just hours later, Israel carried out its strikes anyway. When questioned by the BBC on Monday, Trump pushed back against claims Netanyahu had defied him, arguing that Israeli warplanes were already airborne when the two leaders spoke. “If I tell him to do something, he does it,” Trump told the BBC in a brief phone interview.

On the surface, the incident appears to be another example of Trump failing to control Israeli policy, adding to a growing list of public tensions between the two leaders. Just last week, multiple reports emerged that Trump launched a profanity-laced tirade against Netanyahu, labeling him “crazy” for his push to strike Beirut. Netanyahu has defended the Beirut strikes as a necessary measure to counter persistent Hezbollah threats to northern Israel, while Trump has argued that unprompted Israeli escalation threatens his efforts to strike a deal with Tehran that would reopen the Strait of Hormuz and secure binding guarantees on Iran’s nuclear program. In an interview with the New York Post last week, Trump said he was deeply frustrated by Netanyahu’s “constantly fighting with Lebanon”.

Despite the prevailing narrative that Netanyahu defied Trump’s order, the reality is far more nuanced. Veteran American Middle East negotiator Aaron David Miller noted that Trump gave Netanyahu what amounted to a “blinking yellow light” – a signal of limited, cautious approval for a single, limited strike. Military analysts point out that Israel could never have carried out a direct strike on Iran without at least tacit approval from Washington. The US currently maintains its largest military buildup in the Middle East since the 2003 invasion of Iraq, with hundreds of American personnel embedded with the Israel Defense Forces (IDF) for joint coordination. Any Israeli airstrike on Iran would require detailed coordination with US military commands to avoid accidental clashes with American forces operating in the region. After the strikes, IDF officials told Israeli journalists there had been “full co-ordination” with US Central Command, and confirmed that the US military assisted in shooting down incoming Iranian missiles targeting Israel.

By Monday afternoon Washington time, both Israel and Iran had signaled that the current round of hostilities was over – a status quo aligned perfectly with Trump’s immediate goals. Analysts suggest two plausible explanations for Trump’s pre-strike call for restraint: either the public warning was intended for Tehran, to distance Washington from the upcoming Israeli strike and preserve diplomatic progress, or Trump genuinely intended to halt the attack but was persuaded to back down by Netanyahu.

While Israel viewed retaliation as a necessary deterrent to future Iranian attacks, Iran’s decision to launch missiles against Israel in response to a strike in Lebanon marked a significant strategic shift. For the first time in the current conflict, Iran responded to an Israeli strike against Lebanese targets rather than an attack on Iranian soil, a deliberate choice to tie the separate US-Iran ceasefire to the nominal, largely unenforced ceasefire between Israel and Hezbollah. The strikes also served as a test of Trump’s commitment to Israel: how far would Washington back an Israeli counterstrike, and would the US enter the conflict directly? For Tehran, any public rift that can be opened between Washington and Jerusalem improves its negotiating position.

In the end, Trump opted for public distance from the strikes while continuing his diplomatic outreach. Just hours before the escalation, Trump told NBC News that a nuclear deal with Iran was “very close”. After the exchanges, he struck a dismissive tone toward both sides, saying each had “had their fun” and it was now time to return to negotiations.

Iranian leadership has emerged from the confrontation emboldened. Iranian President Masoud Pezeshkian argued that the country’s military strikes against Israel had strengthened its hand in talks with Washington, describing “diplomacy and defence” as the “two wings of national power”. “We have neither abandoned the field nor the negotiating table,” he wrote on social media.

Iran’s economy is reeling under the weight of crippling US sanctions, a crisis worsened by the ongoing American naval blockade of Iranian ports. Tehran’s top priorities in negotiations with Washington are clear: first, meaningful sanctions relief and the unfreezing of tens of billions of dollars in blocked Iranian oil revenue, and second, a commitment from the US to rein in Israeli escalation against Hezbollah in Lebanon, which Iran views as a key deterrent against future Israeli strikes on its own territory.

With high global oil prices driven by Iran’s closure of the Strait of Hormuz putting pressure on the US economy ahead of midterm elections, Tehran has calculated that Trump has little incentive to open a new round of full-scale conflict. Each incremental escalation tests Trump’s patience, but Iran believes Trump is far more motivated to secure a signature foreign policy win than to return to open war, so it is pushing to front-load its key demands in any final agreement.

When asked Sunday whether he would agree to unfreeze Iranian assets or lift sanctions upfront as part of a deal, Trump gave a clear answer: “No.” That refusal has emerged as a key sticking point blocking progress, and the risk of further regional destabilization remains high – a dynamic that could yet push the US and Iran back into open, direct conflict.