Masculinity and vulnerability aren’t exclusive, says Bafta-nominated director

The semi-autobiographical film ‘My Father’s Shadow’ has emerged as a groundbreaking cinematic exploration of father-son relationships within Black families. Directed by Nigerian-British brothers Akinola Davies Jr. and Wale Davies, the feature debut has garnered international acclaim since its premiere at the Cannes Film Festival, where it became the first Nigerian production selected for the event’s official program.

The narrative unfolds during Nigeria’s historic 1993 presidential election, tracing the emotional journey of two young brothers, Akin and Remi, who experience an unexpected day with their previously absent father, Folarin. Through the children’s perspective, viewers witness a complex portrayal of masculinity that challenges stereotypical representations. The film intentionally showcases vulnerable moments, including a powerful scene where Folarin, portrayed by Sope Dirisu, openly grieves his brother’s death before his sons.

This nuanced examination of paternal relationships has resonated deeply with audiences, particularly within the Nigerian diaspora. Ellis Lamai, a 26-year-old British-Nigerian viewer, noted how the film’s depiction of paternal pressures reflected his own family’s experience, stating it helped him understand the generational drive to ‘get past your circumstances’ that characterized many Nigerian families’ migration stories.

Beyond its personal narrative, the directors deliberately presented an authentic portrayal of Lagos that counters Western media stereotypes. ‘We wanted to show our Lagos properly,’ Akinola emphasized, highlighting the joy and cultural richness often overlooked in external representations.

The film’s critical success has culminated in a BAFTA nomination for Outstanding Debut by a British Writer, Director or Producer. The directors hope their achievement will inspire more community-authored stories and foster broader understanding of the complexities within parent-child relationships, particularly the importance of vulnerability and emotional connection beyond mere provision.